Searching the web I came across this really awesome internet show called 'Put this On'. I originally discovered it by looking over the Street Etiquette site (need to check it out!). This show is filled with great mens fashion knowledge and is well rounded. Hosted and co-created by Jesse Thorn, I've posted an episode that talks about 'Lo-Heads', Worth and Worth, musician John Marshall and has a kick ass Q & A session. Check it out!!!!
Wednesday, March 20, 2013
Make good art
I've been going through a lot mentally lately. Not in a, "I'm sad and depressed" kind of way where I'm questioning my existence and what I'm doing with my life. Nope. I've mentally been going through more of the, "I've been thinking about what has priority in my life" type of going through stuff. At one point you need to realize/discover what your passions are. I feel that most of us know what our passions are but we choose to either pursue, delay or ignore them. Sometimes life happens and we are put into a situation where it is very difficult because of monetary strain or we have certain obligations that must be met (kids, family, amnesia...). I get it, shit happens. The point is that we each have the ability to follow our passions, it's up to you to make a move. My passions in life make my heart jump and give me a good nervous kind of feeling (Yes, I have more than one passion). My passions are God, family, acting, fashion, creating content and love. These things make me happy, extremely happy and fill me with excitement.
As I was going through my perplexing mental contemplation I came across a video on youtube labeled, 'Inspiration'. I was inspired to click on it and it took me to a graduation speech given by Neil Gaimen. Neil is a writer who has written great pieces such as Coraline and Stardust!! I sat in front of my computer laughing, thinking, and really lost in his words. He spoke about creating for yourself, following your heart and following your passions. He also spoke about the journey to our own mountain and how things will naturally get in our way and cause us to move forward, stop or even walk away from our mountain (destiny). Man, it was exactly what I needed when I needed it. I want you to check out the video but before you do, please read a quote below from his speech because it really put things into perspective:
"The things I did because I was excited and wanted to see them exist in reality have never let me down and I've never regretted the time I spent on any of them" I don't want to regret anything. Here is to us following our passions!!!
As I was going through my perplexing mental contemplation I came across a video on youtube labeled, 'Inspiration'. I was inspired to click on it and it took me to a graduation speech given by Neil Gaimen. Neil is a writer who has written great pieces such as Coraline and Stardust!! I sat in front of my computer laughing, thinking, and really lost in his words. He spoke about creating for yourself, following your heart and following your passions. He also spoke about the journey to our own mountain and how things will naturally get in our way and cause us to move forward, stop or even walk away from our mountain (destiny). Man, it was exactly what I needed when I needed it. I want you to check out the video but before you do, please read a quote below from his speech because it really put things into perspective:
"The things I did because I was excited and wanted to see them exist in reality have never let me down and I've never regretted the time I spent on any of them" I don't want to regret anything. Here is to us following our passions!!!
Tuesday, March 5, 2013
Beauty is only skin deep
The Four Tops Pandora radio is amazing! Just heard a song by The Temptations called, 'Beauty is Skin Deep' that inspired me to write this post...
It's easy to get caught up in physical attraction. When a women see's a man she notices what she notices from a physical stand point (Sorry, I can't really speak on what a women would immediately notice). When a man notices a woman (I can def speak on this) he may notice her breasts, booty, waist size or maybe her calves. Yes calves, guys like certain things. Anyway, we are all attracted to what we want. When I see a woman I'll admit it that I look at her physically attributes and decide to "holler" or not. But from experience, looks get old super fast. Some women are "bad" but like Bell Biv Devo once said, "never trust a big butt and a smile". At one point you need substance. That is why I adopted a policy of never calling a women beautiful when I first see her. I'll call her cute because that is what she is, cute. Cute is saved for the physical. Beautiful however is reserved for the internal and external. Beauty (to me) is reserved for a good hearted women. A women who cares about others, who has a good head on her shoulders and is herself. Nothing is sexier than a women who is her true self. Next time you call a girl beautiful just slow your roll and take stock on who she is as a person. Then after some time start firing away the compliments. Aight, now listen to the track!
It's easy to get caught up in physical attraction. When a women see's a man she notices what she notices from a physical stand point (Sorry, I can't really speak on what a women would immediately notice). When a man notices a woman (I can def speak on this) he may notice her breasts, booty, waist size or maybe her calves. Yes calves, guys like certain things. Anyway, we are all attracted to what we want. When I see a woman I'll admit it that I look at her physically attributes and decide to "holler" or not. But from experience, looks get old super fast. Some women are "bad" but like Bell Biv Devo once said, "never trust a big butt and a smile". At one point you need substance. That is why I adopted a policy of never calling a women beautiful when I first see her. I'll call her cute because that is what she is, cute. Cute is saved for the physical. Beautiful however is reserved for the internal and external. Beauty (to me) is reserved for a good hearted women. A women who cares about others, who has a good head on her shoulders and is herself. Nothing is sexier than a women who is her true self. Next time you call a girl beautiful just slow your roll and take stock on who she is as a person. Then after some time start firing away the compliments. Aight, now listen to the track!
Monday, March 4, 2013
Talent
Yesterday was my little bro's bday so he and I were chilling after his dinner. He decided he wanted to spend some of his birthday money so we shot over to the Promenade in Santa Monica. While we were there we were walking to the Levi's store when all of a sudden I heard the instrumental sound to a Roots song being played, "You got Met" (One of my fav musical groups of all time!!). I stopped and turned around and saw this guy start playing along to the song on his violin. All I can say is wow! This guy was amazing. He did covers to tons of songs and he did an amazing job. His name is Lee England and he was a cool dude. Check out a couple of his videos below and and next time your at the Promenade in Santa Monica buy his CD! (Yes, I bought it). This brother is mad talented, follow your dreams!!!
Sunday, March 3, 2013
Wanna hold hands?
Everyday is an amazing day. Sunday is awesome because it's Sunday! Duh! I get up, stretch/workout, shower, get dressed (dapper looking of course) and head to church. Growing up I saw going to church as a chore. Now, I love it. The word, the feeling of spirituality and being surrounded by so much love. There is such an amazing energy at my church. I normally park in the same area and walk my path to service. As I was walking today there was a couple in front of me. I've seen couples before and this particular couple was in front of me for a few seconds until I really noticed them. I noticed them holding hands. I've seen hand holding before (who hasn't?) but what really held my focus was that they were holding hands headed to church. Man, what an amazing thing to witness...Love. I'm all about energy and the spirit of people and their spirits were radiating with love. Love for each other but a love for God. I'll be straight up and honest, I can be guarded at times with my heart. Being vulnerable emotionally is not my go to thing but I know that I do love and can be vulnerable when the time is right. All I know is that when I saw this couple it reminded me that I want what they have, a relationship forged through God. I've always wanted what they have and I know I'll get it, someday. I know that I deserve the absolute best because I will give my best. If you've read my past entries (Valentines post) you know that I'm about the simple things. Holding hands is such a simple act of love but has such a huge impact. Holding hands requires physical action where you can feel the other person but the world also see's your union. Love is a journey with ups and downs but it always works out if you work at it. Such a great thing to see and experience. Best way to end this post is with a song....take it away John Legend!
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